I used to post more along these lines, but seem to have ‘lost the time’ somehow, and that’s sad. So I thought I would share a quick comment I just posted elsewhere…
I have come to believe that it is always our attitude that defines the feeling. Somebody cannot insult you if you don’t accept it as an insult. Something cannot hurt you if you choose to view it as something other than pain. Sadness can transform into something more rewarding if we step back and refocus. And hate dissipates if we reflect the hater’s hate with love.
Always harder than they sound, but so worth the effort.
eHugs to you. 🙂